The Bonobo Way
The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure
What do bonobos know that we don’t know?
Find out in "The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure," my unique, paradigm-changing view of human sexuality, war, peace and community, inspired by a role model who isn’t even human: our closest genetic cousin, the bonobo.
Here are some things we know about bonobos:
1) They have lots of sex.
2) They never kill each other.
3) They empower the females.
4) They nurture the males.
5) They share, care and try to be fair.
6) They live in peace through pleasure
And we thought humans were the smartest apes!
For decades, experts have used the “killer ape” paradigm to explain why humans murder, make war, bomb and behead each other, and supposedly always will.
Sure, our common chimp cousins kill, but do they tell the whole tale? Luckily, no. The Bonobo Way shows the other side of the story, presenting the bonobos as a new great ape paradigm for humanity that could change the world… or at least improve your love life!
From the lush depths of the rainforest to the satin sheets of your bedroom, takes a fascinating journey, weaving stories, studies, theories & fantasies into possibilities & a practical path of action, presenting a very different kind of “12-Step Program” to release your “inner bonobo,” help save the real bonobos from extinction and energize all facets of your life.
Go Bonobos and give The Bonobo Way to someone you love… even if that someone is you.




I'm thinking this is a great reference book, whenever I need to align myself with what really matters, I will pick it up and read, I like how the 12 step program is focusing on self-improvement and expanding ourselves to be better than we could have been
That looks like a fun party! I love how Dr. Suzy’s book describes the benefits of female empowerment that the bonobo males have come to know and enjoy. Peace through Pleasure -- Go Bonobos!